hello everyone, just to update this thread and to more or less close it here is the latest from me. Ok we had the meeting on monday and basically we felt that since we were trying to work with the staff member for 4 months and we extended grace and all that we had come to the end of our rope. But because even though we told our administrator, the owner was not willing to implement our recommendations and so Anna and I gave our 30 day notice and so on the 18th of june we'll be out of a job, or sooner depending if they can find a replacement before then. That's how strongly we felt about this and we stood up for what we believed was the right thing to do in this situation. We're still very tired and stressed, but that will get better with time. Thanks for all your prayers and thoughts.
Carroll